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4. Parents


BURTON RUGBY FOOTBALL CLUB CODE OF CONDUCT PARENTS
All members agree to abide by the relevant Code of Conduct and understand the consequences if they breach the Code of Conduct. Burton Rugby Football Club Codes of Conduct ensure that:
•The rights, dignity and worth of young people are respected and treated
•The physical and emotional well being of all players must be placed above all other considerations
•The relationship developed between adults and young people with whom they work must be based on mutual trust and respect
•All activities undertaken are appropriate to the age, maturity, experience and ability of players
•Everyone, including coaches, officials, doctors, physiotherapists etc. should ensure the well being, safety and enjoyment of all players
•The positive aspects of the sport e.g. fair play must be promoted
•Behaviour contrary to the spirit of the Laws of the Game or relevant regulations, or the use of prohibited techniques or substances will never be condoned
The Code of Conduct for PARENTS ensures that :
•They remember that young people play rugby for their own enjoyment, not that of their parents
•Encourage young people to play and do not force them
•They focus on the young players’ efforts rather than on winning or losing
•Parents are realistic about the young players’ ability: not pushing them towards a level that they are not capable of achieving
•Parents provide positive feedback both in training and during the game
•Parents remember that persistent, negative messages will adversely affect the players’ and referee’s performance and attitude
•Parents always support BRFC in their efforts to eradicate loud, coarse and abusive behaviour from the game
•Parents remember that young people learn by example
•Parents always show appreciation of good play to ALL young players, both from your own club and the opposition
•They respect decisions made by the match officials and encourage the young players to do likewise
•Parents are encouraged to be familiar with the coaching and training programme in order that their child is fully involved and coaches are aware of their ability
•Parents are familiar with the teaching and coaching methods used by observing sessions in which their child participates
•Parent should be aware that BRFC has a duty of care, and therefore, where appropriate, assist coaches with the supervision of young players, particularly where numbers are large and there is a need to transport youngsters to away games
•Parents are involved with club activities and share their expertise
•Parents share concerns if they have them with club officials
•Parents are familiar with the Coaches’ Code of Conduct and in particular that coaches should recognise the importance of fun and enjoyment when coaching young players
•Parents should ensure that coaches keep winning and losing in perspective, encouraging young players to behave with dignity in all circumstances It is important that parents support coaches in instilling these virtues