Signs and symptoms
A child may indicate by signs or behaviour that he or she is being bullied. Children and Young People have described bullying as:
1. Being called names.
2. Being teased.
3. Being hit, pushed, pulled, pinched, or kicked.
4. Having their bag, mobile or other possessions taken.
5. Receiving abusive text messages.
6. Being forced to hand over money.
7. Being forced to do things they do not want to do.
8. Being ignored or left out.
9. Being attacked because of religion, gender, sexuality, disability, appearance or ethnic or racial origin.
Other signs and symptoms:
A child or young person:
1. Doesn't want to attend training or club activities.
2. Changes their usual routine.
3. Begins being disruptive during sessions.
4. Becomes withdrawn anxious, or lacking in confidence.
5. Has possessions going missing.
6. Becomes aggressive, disruptive or unreasonable.
7. Starts stammering.
8. Has unexplained cuts or bruises.
9. Is bullying other children.
10. Stops eating.
11. Is frightened to say what's wrong.
These signs and behaviours may not constitute bullying and may be symptoms of other problems. Club/Constituent members, coaches and volunteers need to be aware of these possible signs and report any concerns to the Club Child Protection Officer.
Procedures and management of bullying
1. Report bullying incidents to the Club Child Protection Officer If the incident is an adult bullying a young person, the Club Child Protection Officer will report the incident to the RFU Child Protection Officer. If the incident is a young person bullying a young person, the club will manage this, and can access advice and support from the Club Child Protection Officer or RFU Child Protection Officer at any stage of the process.
2. Parents may be informed and asked to come to a meeting to discuss the problem.
3. If necessary and appropriate, police will be consulted.
4. If mediation fails and the bullying is seen to continue the Club can initiate disciplinary action under the relevant constitution.